Thursday, December 19, 2013

Because it's Beautiful


“If no one ever took risks, Michelangelo would have painted the Sistine Floor” — Neil Simon

Joe was born and raised Catholic, the second of six children.  He grew up with a strong relationship with Jesus and a devotion to His Mother Mary.  He met his own Mary, who came from a family that sporadically attended various Protestant churches.  Joe evangelized Mary as he courted her, letting her know from the beginning that his faith was an integral part of his life.  Mary attended RCIA and they married in the Catholic Church and would go on to raise three girls.

Two years ago, Mary was talking to some of her girlfriends and mentioned something about the architecture of the church that she and Joe had attended recently while on vacation.  Her friends were amazed that someone would take time away from vacation to attend church.  Catherine, 48 years old, went home and told her husband, Lawrence, 62 years old, about the conversation.  Lawrence, who had recently been spiritually searching, said “We need to find out what church they go to - they obviously truly believe”.

Catherine had grown up in a Pentecostal family, one of 8 children.  Her family attended church every Sunday.  She was raised in what she describes as a very anti-Catholic atmosphere.  She also was a self-described feminist and was pro-abortion.  Lawrence was an only child and had been raised Baptist. They were both divorced when they married 6 years previously and had not attended church except at Christmas and Easter.

Over the next 6 months, Lawrence or Catherine would ask Mary questions about the Catholic Church, such as “Why do you Catholics worship statues?”  Mary would give her best answer, and then later share it with Joe.  Joe would expound on the topic and provide evidence supporting the Catholic position, and Mary would return to share it with their friends.  Their friends began attending Mass every Sunday - Catherine told Mary she was doing it for Lawrence.  They eventually sat down with the parish priest to explore becoming Catholic.  However, the annulment process seemed too daunting, and they stopped coming to Mass. 

This summer, Lawrence and Catherine vacationed in Rome.  Standing in the Sistine Chapel, they were overcome with emotion as the beauty and sacredness of Michelangelo’s masterpiece washed over them. St Peter’s basilica was even more moving, and it was here, near the altar, that Lawrence reported feeling an overwhelming desire to become Catholic.

Joe and Mary are now the sponsors for Lawrence and Catherine in RCIA.  Their friends’ 18 year old daughter (who did not even know the Lord’s Prayer until RCIA) and her boyfriend, are also in the class.  Catherine is now on fire for her new faith and speaks eagerly of what it will mean to receive the Eucharist for the first time.

The seed of evangelization was planted by Mary speaking openly about one, minor aspect of her faith. The conversion was cultivated by answering many questions and praying to the Holy Spirit. The harvest occurred when the warmth of the Son shown upon Lawrence and Catherine in all of His beauty on a trip to Rome. 

Peter Kreeft is a professor of philosophy at Boston College and the King’s College. In his audio CD “7 Reasons to Be Catholic” (available at the kiosk in the back of Good Shepherd), his seventh reason is “…because it’s beautiful”. He describes how as a boy, he visited St Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City and thought “This is heaven”. As he was undergoing his conversion to Catholicism from Calvinism, someone suggested that he listen to some of the music of the Catholic composer Palestrina. It was beautiful to him, and again he thought “I absolutely know this music comes from heaven.”

Be aware that we are made in His image and that the body is beautiful. The Church is the body of Christ. Don’t forget to look to the beauty of the Church to help you in your quests to evangelize.

Have a joyous and blessed Christmas.

Oh, and one more thing…

 

What Do the Saints Say?
"Late have I loved you, O Beauty ever ancient, ever new, late have I loved you!"  -St. Augustine

This Week’s Evangelization Challenge
We want to hear from you! If you are a convert or have come home to the Church after a long absence, please write about it or call the parish office be interviewed for a story.

Monday, December 16, 2013

Love Will Find a Way… Back to God

After more than a decade of not walking with the Lord and a failed marriage, I met my wife Susan and fell in love. Susan lived at home with her parents and was a Catholic who had attended parochial school and a Catholic college. Many of our interests were the same and I always felt very comfortable with her.  She attended Mass faithfully, some might say “religiously,” on weekends, Holy Days and other days of obligation. I began to go with her though she never pressured me.  I firmly believe that God sent her to save me. In 1980 we were married first in the Baptist Church as she explained that we would not be allowed to be married in the Catholic Church. I knew very little about Catholicism. The first experiences of Mass were a source of wonderment to me. Susan never raised the issue of religion nor did I feel any pressure from her at all to become a Catholic. Having just come out of a decade of not walking with the Lord I hungered to return to him. I decided to examine the Catholic faith. My love for Susan led me to want us to share a strong foundation spiritually for our marriage. In retrospect part of what attracted me to Susan was her faith.

I received my own private RCIA training from Monsignor Louis at a nearby Church. I began the process of seeking an annulment from my first marriage and was blessed that it went quickly. Susan and I were married in the Catholic Church shortly before the birth of our son Adam. Later that year I received the Eucharist and Confirmation and was brought into full communion with the Catholic Church.

I have a daughter from my first marriage and I had visitation every other weekend. I was grateful that her mother did not stand in the way of Jennifer being raised in the Catholic faith. Her training was accomplished privately with Monsignor Louis during visits and ultimately she was baptized, and received her First Holy Communion at an Easter Vigil. I arranged for ongoing religious education through the Church in New York. Two of my greatest joys are giving my daughter her Catholic faith and watching my now grandchildren, Olivia and Derek, be baptized and raised as Catholics

I have heard it said that our Mission as Husbands and Fathers is to get our loved ones to heaven and that is my quest.

— Parishioner Steve Z

What Does the Bible Say?
“Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends…  And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.” (1 Corinthians 12 - 13)

“I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” (John 13:34-35)

What Do the Saints Say?
"To convert somebody go and take them by the hand and guide them."  - St. Thomas Aquinas

 
This Week’s Evangelizing Challenge
Gift idea! Grab a CD or Book for a family member or a friend from the kiosk in the narthex.
For Advent, Start Some Family Traditions
It’s not too late to assemble an advent wreath to light at each of your evening meals this advent. Say a prayer or have the youngest sing a verse of a Christmas hymn like Silent Night.
Put a nativity scene (crèche) in the house where it can be plainly seen. Gather around it and say a prayer as a family. If there are children in the home and the pieces are not breakable, have the three Wise Men start their journey on Christmas Eve and move them slowly closer to the stable each day, arriving on January 6th (Epiphany). You could also have Mary and Joseph make their way toward the stable during Advent to arrive on Christmas Eve. This will reinforce that Christmas is a season in the Church and help kids understand the concept of The 12 Days of Christmas.
Leave the manger/crib noticeably empty through Advent. Place the Baby Jesus in the crib sometime during Christmas morning.
On Christmas Eve, gather the family around and read Chapter 2 of St Luke’s Gospel aloud. Consider having a grandparent read it, or everyone reading a section depending on their reading skills and desires.
 

 

 

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Everyone Likes a Story


“Modern man listens more willingly to a witness than to a teacher, and if he does listen to teachers, it is because they are witnesses.”  

— Pope Venerable Paul VI

Everyone likes a story with a happy ending.  Everyone wants to see George Bailey find that $8,000 and Clarence to get his wings.  No one is disappointed when Scrooge comes to the Cratchits’ on Christmas morning with his arms piled high with presents and his heart filled with Christmas spirit.  And who has not shed a tear when the Baby Jesus brings the Little Drummer boy’s lamb back to life? Every conversion story has a happy ending because it ends with the person coming closer to Jesus, the source of all joy and happiness.

Whether you are a convert, a revert (one who has returned to the faith), or a lifelong Catholic, you must find your own personal way of sharing your own faith testimony.  In Terry Barber’s How to Share Your Faith with Anyone, he suggests five effective testimony types to help you evangelize.

1.     My personal walk with the Lord

2.     The reasons I love being Catholic

3.     The Catholic Church as the Church founded by Jesus Christ

4.     My conversion

5.     God’s call and my vocation

Whichever you choose, keep it simple and centered on one event. “Whether your conversion was from another religion or denomination or from a worldly life to a Christ-centered one, it is the transformation . . . that will appeal to people.”

“Arrange your testimony into three parts:

1.     Before You committed your Life to the Lord

Your testimony will begin with some personal history:  your family background and upbringing, your vocation in life, your interests, and so forth.  Then you will share more specifically about your “past life”, that is, the way things were before you committed yourself to Jesus Christ and his Church.”  Be honest about the sinful areas of your past life but be prudent and don’t glamorize it.

2.     God’s “Divine Invasion” and Your Conversion.

How did Christ come into your life in a personal way?  Be specific.  It is your story, but remember the main character is our Savior.  Concentrate on Him.  “The main point of your entire witness is the way you have become a “new creation” (2 Corinthians 5:17) in Jesus Christ especially through His grace communicated through the Sacraments and the transformation that has come about in your life (Acts 26:12-19).

3.     Your New Life in Jesus Christ

Express clearly the differences in your life now that you have “the mind of Christ” (1 Corinthians 2: 16).  Make it compelling enough to make the person you are evangelizing want what you have:  a relationship with Jesus Christ that resulted when you entered the Church or returned to the practice of the Faith.  Be honest and provide specific, concrete examples and true stories.  Examples include “… your new outlook on life; your ability to forgive; your new freedom, which may include freedom from addiction or bad habits but is most especially liberation from the enslavement of sin and bandage of the devil”

Write out your story.  Practice it out loud.  Remember, your personal testimony has the power to bring someone to eternal life.


What Does the Bible Say?
“Proclaim the message; be persistent whether the time is favorable or unfavorable; convince, rebuke, and encourage, with the utmost patience in teaching.”
— 2 Timothy 4:2

“You did not choose me but I chose you. And I appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask him in my name.”

— John 15:16

What Do the Saints Say?
“Modern man listens more willingly to a witness than to a teacher, and if he does listen to teachers, it is because they are witnesses.”  

— Pope Venerable Paul VI

This Week’s Evangelizing Challenge

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